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As I have loved you

This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you. Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.

John 15:12–13 · King James Version

The measure of love is not your affection. It is the love you have already been shown.

An inner reading

“As I have loved you” sets the standard outside the fluctuations of liking. You are not commanded to invent a love from the ego’s supply. You are commanded to pass on a love that has already come — the same life, continuing through you toward the next person. That is why it can be a commandment. It is participation, not a mood.

Laying down one’s life, metaphysically, is the laying down of the separate self: the life that insists on being first, safe, and credited. Sometimes that is literal courage. More often, daily, it is the small death of being right, of being preferred, of being untouched. Greater love has no higher form because there is nothing left to withhold.

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